Every marriage tells two stories—one of love, and one of attachment. Psychology says the way we bonded with our parents shapes the way we bond with our partners. 👉 A secure attachment means trust, safety, and comfort in being vulnerable. 👉 An anxious attachment often brings fear of abandonment, constant reassurance-seeking, and emotional highs and lows. 👉 An avoidant attachment creates distance—where love is present, but closeness feels threatening. Conflicts in marriage are rarely just about chores or money… they’re about these hidden patterns of attachment. The good news? With awareness, couples can shift toward secure attachment—building marriages that feel safe, supportive, and lasting.”*